Something Wonderful

In honor of The Bard’s birthday, which is coming up (approximately) next week, I thought we’d all enjoy one of his lovely songs:

It was a lover and his lass,
With a hey, and a ho, and a hey nonino,
That o’er the green cornfield did pass
In springtime, the only pretty ringtime,
When birds do sing, hey ding a ding, ding.
Sweet lovers love the spring.

Between the acres of the rye,
With a hey, and a ho, and a hey nonino,
These pretty country folks would lie
In springtime…

This carol they began that hour,
With a hey, and a ho, and a hey nonino,
How that a life was but a flower
In the springtime…

And therefore take the present time,
With a hey, and a ho, and the hey nonino,
For love is crowned with the prime
In springtime…


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Real Joy

“When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left but could say, ‘I used everything you gave me.’”    Erma Bombeck

Spending ourselves in service of something we truly care about and find soul-satisfying – what greater feeling of fulfillment can there be? What better way to work? And yet, so often we forget that it’s the act of doing this, of working hard, the act of achieving that is the real reward – the real joy. It’s the journey not the destination – how true this is!

Consider these words of wisdom from a powerful action guide I’m reading: The Practicing Mind: Developing Focus and Discipline in Your Life by Thomas M. Sterner:

“The real joy lies in creating and sustaining the stamina and patience needed to work for something over a period of time. Like swimming across the lake toward the large tree, we focus on each moment of our effort toward the object, acknowledging the object to ourselves only occasionally to maintain our energy and direction. When the time to actually acquire it comes, we have generated a tremendous amount of energy. We have earned the privilege to acquire the object, and that acquisition is the culmination of our entire process: the discipline, the work, the restraint, the patience. Finally we hold it in our hands….

“So many people miss this point. They look at the process of working for something as an annoying effort they have to go through to get what they want. They make the thing the goal instead of the process of getting the thing. Just getting the thing produces a very small return of inner joy compared to the dividends gleaned form the process of getting there and achieving the goal. The key word here is achieving. Getting the goal and achieving it are worlds apart….

“When you make a decision to acquire something whose acquisition will require a long-term commitment, pick the goal and then be aware that you are entering the process of achieving the goal. You cannot do this if you constantly make the end result your point of focus. You have acknowledged the goal; now let go of it and put your energy into the practice and process that will move your toward that goal.”

What a great message for us all to take to heart in our work and our lives: Real joy and true satisfaction come from achieving, not acquiring. Write on!



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Poetry Play

“Poetry is the music of the soul.”    

April showers bring May flowers, surely something joyous and uplifting to celebrate. The month of April also offers another delight: National Poetry Month, the largest literary celebration in the world. Coast to coast, millions of poetry lovers: students, teachers, librarians, booksellers, publishers, bloggers, writers, aspiring authors, and poets take part in events aimed at marking the importance of poetry in American culture and our everyday lives. What a gift!

Now that Spring really seems to have arrived, why not make a joyful noise to welcome it and read poetry? I’m happy to say that every month is poetry month for my fabulous Poetry Appreciation Group, which is meeting today in our local library under the wing of Montclair’s wonderful Write Group. Still, it seems fitting that April, the birth month of William Wordsworth, Maya Angelou, George Herbert, Walter de la Mare, and William Shakespeare, among others, is given extra special attention.

Inspired by successful celebrations of February’s Black History Month and March’s Women’s History Month, the Academy of American Poets founded National Poetry Month in April of 1996 with several goals in mind:

To highlight the legacy and achievements of American poets;

To encourage the reading of poems as a cherished art form;

To help teachers bring poetry into their classrooms; and

To encourage support for poets and poetry publication.

You can help celebrate National Poetry Month by writing your own poetry, reading a poem each day, purchasing  a book of poetry at your favorite indie bookstore, attending a poetry reading at a café or library, reading a poem of your own at an open mic event, or signing up for a poetry class or workshop. For more on the Academy of American Poets and National Poetry Month, visit: And write on!

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Show Up!

Wow, what a story! Monday, the day of the Boston Marathon, offered up some of the worst weather conditions ever: Pouring rain. Freezing air. High winds. Yet despite all this, Desiree Linden became the first American woman in 33 years to win. But here’s the real story behind the story, the kicker. She almost didn’t run. She almost quit!

A news headline tells the tale: “Runner Tells Herself ‘Just Show Up For One more Mile’ – And Wins The Boston Marathon.”

The 34-year-old runner is a two-time Olympian. She finished second at the Boston Marathon in 2011. But her barrier-breaking victory almost didn’t happen. Faced with the cold rain and wind, Linden said she wasn’t feeling well and thought about bailing out of the race. But she didn’t quit. She kept going – and won.*

Inspiring words from this champion peak performer to speed us on our own path:

“It was such a miserable day, and when things go awry, they can kind of ding you up for a while and also take time out of your career,” she says. “I’m on the back half of my career, so I have to be super careful at this point. And early on, I was freezing and my muscles were tight, and I was like ‘This isn’t – this is not my day.’ So I did kind of toy around with the idea of stepping off.”

“It’s the moment you dream of during the tough days when you don’t wanna go out and run, when you’re a little kid and you’re getting into the sport, and you turn [on] the TV, and you see the Boston Marathon. You dream about breaking that tape. It was the culmination of years of hard work, and years of dreaming, and years of never giving up.”

[I was saying:]”I don’t know if I’m going to even get to start this race, like this is not going well. It should be going better.” And then, there was a lot of days where you’d had that glimmer of hope, and you go, “No, this is exactly on pace. This is the perfect – it’s going to plan absolutely 100 percent.” And I decided to stop thinking about each day so much, and just keep showing up. Like, whatever the day gave me, just show up. That’s kind of how I attacked the race, too. Once I got over the fact that I wasn’t going to drop out, it was like, “Just show up for one more mile. Show up for one more minute.” And that was kind of my mantra throughout this entire build and through the entire race day on Monday.”

“Some days it just flows and I feel like I’m born to do this, other days it feels like I’m trudging through hell. Every day I make the choice to show up and see what I’ve got, and to try and be better.”

“My advice: keep showing up.”

Write on!  * This inspiring story comes to us via Dr. Rob Gilbert’s super mom, Corinne Ellis Gilbert, who alerted him to it and Rob’s fabulous Success Hotline (973.743.4690)!

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Contest Update

Do you have a manuscript on hand that you polished until it sparkles? One you’d love to get in front of editors and publishers? Then you might want to fine-tune and submit it to the Writer’s Digest 87th Annual Writing Competition, one of the longest running competitions around. So sharpen your pencils and fire up the computer,  the early deadline is: May 4th.

Close to 500 people will be recognized and one Grand Prize Winner will receive:

$5,000 in cash
An interview with the author in Writer’s Digest
One on one attention from four editors or agents
A paid trip to the upcoming Writer’s Digest Conference
A one year subscription to Writer’s Digest Tutorials

The First place winner in each category will receive $1,000 in cash
The Second place winner in each category will receive $500 cash
The Third place winner in each category will receive $250 in cash
The Fourth place winner in each category will receive $100 in cash

The Grand Prize winning piece and the 1st place winning piece in
each category will be published in the 87th Annual Writer’s Digest
Annual Writing Competition Collection. All other top winners will have
their names listed in Writer’s Digest, on and in the
87th Annual Writer’s Digest Annual Writing Competition Collection.


Mainstream/Literary Short Story

Inspirational Writing (Spiritual/Religious)
Memoirs/Personal Essay
Magazine Feature Article
Genre Short Story (Mystery, Romance, etc.)
Rhyming Poetry
Non-rhyming Poetry

Scriptwriting (TV/film)

Children’s/YA submissions are also welcome.

For contest requirements visit: Write on!


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Refreshing Rain

Sunshine is delicious, rain is refreshing.
Wind braces us up, snow is exhilarating.
There is no such thing as bad weather,
Only different kinds of good weather.
John Ruskin

“Rain, rain, go away/ Come again another day.” Like a kid who wants to play outside, it’s easy to feel low when it’s pouring outside as it is doing right now just beyond my window. Being a Pisces, however, which is a water sign, I’ve always loved the rain. I’ve always felt that it creates a cozy, misty curtain from the world that invites me to dream and create.

So I’m definitely in Ruskin’s camp! What a cheerful attitude! Reading his words, it strikes me that thinking about the weather outside is a lot like thinking about our writing and how it’s going inside. Weather-wise, we can complain about the rain or the cold — whatever doesn’t suit us. And writing-wise, we can feel dissatisfied or stressed about our day’s work.

And yet, just as our boy John says there is “no such thing as bad weather, only different kinds of good weather,” so it goes with our writing. In a sense, there’s no such thing as a bad writing day, because no matter how haltingly we move forward or even if we seem to be making no progress, we’re still doing what we’re meant to do. Just as the sun shines and the snow snows, we are doing the work we’ve chosen and the work that’s chosen us.

So let’s relax. Let’s just be with our writing — and let it be just as it is. If we have a “sunny” writing day, let’s enjoy it. And if it proves to be “rainy” instead, gray and overcast, let’s go with what is without judging and finding ourselves wanting — and write on.

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Something Wonderful

The rising moon has hid the stars;
Her level rays, like golden bars,
Lie on the landscape green,
With shadows brown between.

And silver white the river gleams,
As if Diana in her dreams,
Had dropt her silver bow
Upon the meadows low.

From Endymion
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

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